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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.
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Am I the creator of my destiny ???????

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Look at yourself and where you’re at, is it where you want to be? If not, do you accept responsibility? Do you believe that you are the creator of your own destiny? It’s so much easier to blame outside influences or other people. The truth is, when you accept that it’s down to you, it can be hard to take. Now some people believe our future is predetermined and we have no control over it. All we are doing is playing it out and what will be, will be. I don’t subscribe to that theory, to me it’s the same as shifting the blame elsewhere. If you think your future is not your call, then I believe you’re giving away control. Saying that its fate and “the way it’s meant to be” are excuses. Of course, the way we were “shaped” in our early years by those who brought us up and taught us, will most likely affect our destiny. Our beliefs and values were instilled into us in our first few years, but they do not need to be set in stone, we can choose to change – if we want to. What is Destiny? It’s a...
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