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 You’ve a simple mantra – have no expectations from people, because you were convinced that there was nobody for you and then, you met them and your world flipped. They made you feel warm, sitting under the sun after taking a bath in a winter morning kind of warm. They were your rays of sunshine, in a way. You were certain that they will leave, too, but they never did. They were around, whenever you needed them, with their goofy smile, they’d set your demons straight and calm you down. What years of therapy couldn’t achieve, a few moments did – you felt at peace. You want to watch chick flicks and walk under the stars with them. Dancing in the rain and singing your favourite songs with them feels no less than being at the top of the world. They make you believe in the goodness of the world. They go out of their way to make you smile on days you don’t even feel like waking up. They accept you for who you are, with all your flaws and insecurities. They believe in you and not pity you...

 So, maybe nobody loves me. Maybe nobody will ever love me. But maybe it’s not about being loved by somebody else. The one you loved didn’t love you back. or perhaps, they left saying you were too much or not enough for them. You loved them more than you ever loved yourself, and they broke your heart. It hurt. It hurt bloody too much. it was like bees stinging every part of your body for a long time. Whenever you felt lonely, you loved people just to feel less alone. Often, you loved the wrong ones. Sometimes, you loved the ones who had said they would not stay. you loved all – because something was better than nothing. But as it is with all wounds, you got used to the pain. You got used to the absence of love. You became this person who stopped seeking love. you started growing up. You started doing things on your own. from going to the movies to going out for a walk, you started doing it all alone. And after a point, you started liking it, too.  You don’t need someone to lov...

  Do you love surprises? I just love to surprise others and being surprised.   Surprises add spark to your relationship and communicate how much you care. It adds even more nourishment to your relationships. It’s how you get peoples’ attention and delight them so you get them curious and excited about what you have to offer. I would like to share with you an experience from my real life. One of my best friend’s birthday was about to strike. I had no idea about what to gift him but I had to do something unusual.   I came across online shopping sites, searching for wrist watches, key chains etc etc…I wasn’t satisfied with any of those. After so many reverberating thoughts, I decided to do some handcrafts. I never utilized my time for handcrafts till then. I thought it was not my cup of tea.   I came across so many you tube videos and finally I decided to make a scrapbook. At first, it was so tough to take measurements, then to cut the papers, designing (basically d...