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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Comment please ????

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Sometimes consciously/unconsciously we pass comment on certain things that might increase bitterness in relationships. May be we don't mean to hurt someone but still words are words. The other person might not react instantly but a bad impression of yours is been already made. Having control on your tongue is really a wisdom. Our words are what make us wise or a villian. It's been seen people talking too much often make mistakes like "asking an uncomfortable question or remark". That's why intelligent people speak less hence have good control on their tongue and make less mistakes. Make sure your words add value than being a waste. Practice consciousness and take your words seriously. That's what make you look and feel responsible and full of empath. Good Luck Dear Gentle Readers💖

Invisibly visible

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  Sometimes in life you cross paths with someone who instantly makes you feel calm, refreshed, alive and wholesome. They encourage your dreams and celebrate your wins without an ounce of jealousy. They just want what's best for you and for them, there isn’t much more to it. They are warm and bright, loving and loyal. You can’t help but feel authentically happy in their presence, like the best version of yourself. No titles can exactly define that invisible bond between you and them. But remember, everything comes into your life with an expiry date. It’s easy to look back and question the decisions you have made in the past but its unfair to punish yourself for them. Nothing is permanent in this world, neither people nor situations in your life. The only thing that is constant in your life is “change”. Change in people, change in feelings, and change in circumstances…….. Change is always accompanied by discomforts.  However, you should never regret going after what makes your heart

Don't run away !!!!!

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Don't run away from matters that are really important. How long we will be silent on issues that affect our life. So much wrong is going on, we can't be that ignorant. I know our opinion may or may not matter to others but that doesn't mean we shouldn't have one. There is nothing bad to self educate and research about real issues and topics. Ugh, I don't have any info about this so I'll not speak....seriously.... that's not how it works. Your opinion and understanding about the topic matters, may be not for others but at least to your inner self. When we choose to have silence on real issues, believe me, we loose some part of our true self. Don't ever let that happen. Be a responsible citizen and human. Good Luck Dears💖

Dear Friend

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There are some people in your life, but you don't know why,  talking about death and conspiracy theories or even nasty matters seems as easy as talking about your favorite food. Maybe it's about how they are the only person to know of your Arachibutyrophobia (fear of peanut butter sticking to the roof of your mouth), or maybe it's because they were the only person you wanted to tell that to. And somewhere between singing weird songs and arguing about why dogs are better than cats, you figure out abnormal happiness. It is so easy to be with them, effortless, almost. Being around them just feel natural. Isn't that the most one can ask for? This is where you realize, the real beauty of friendship which is not as easy as the movies make it seem. Life happens and sometimes, you screw up. You get into a huge fight, say nasty things to each other and you storm off. You wonder if it would have been easier to have stayed as strangers and not having been caught up in the complica

Imposter Syndrome

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While it’s common to experience doubt every now and then, the qualifying feelings of imposter syndrome are stark thought and behavioral patterns. Do any of the following sound familiar?⁠⁠ Perfectionism - if you have ever been labeled a perfectionist, set extremely high standards for yourself, or feel like unless you complete 100% of your goals without error you are not doing well, this may be a sign of imposter syndrome.⁠ Expert - have you ever stopped yourself from asking a question or applying to a job because you didn’t already know the answer or meet all the criteria? Those who hold themselves back for fear of not being qualified without even trying fall into imposter syndrome territory.⁠ Lone Wolf - if you are the type who does not like to be a part of a team or ask for help for fear of feeling like a failure or fraud, you may be experiencing imposter syndrome.⁠ ⁠There are other psychological difficulties associated with imposter syndrome such as feelings of shame, guilt, anxie

Not Sure Who Needs To Hear This!

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I just wanted to tell you something's' which I have learned so far briefly  1. LOVE YOURSELF JUST THE WAY YOU ARE. You don't have to find the meaning of, perfection,  in someone else's dictionary to fit in their lives. Stop being unhappy with yourself. You may not be perfect in other's view but you are perfect for yourself.  Your quirks, your flaws, your imperfections................they  make you "you" and "you" are just amazing inside and out. That's enough. 2. DON'T JUST EXIST, LIVE ! Never get too busy in your life to realize what you want from it. Sometimes you let go of your dreams for various reasons, but what least you can do is don't forget it. 3. SOME FRIENDSHIPS ARE MEANT TO LAST FOREVER. How often your friends call or text you doesn't define how strong your friendship with them is. Sometimes knowing they'll be there for you when you need them the most is what keeps friendship alive and going.  4. LIFE GOES ON. Peop