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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Surpriseeeeeeeeee

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  Do you love surprises? I just love to surprise others and being surprised.   Surprises add spark to your relationship and communicate how much you care. It adds even more nourishment to your relationships. It’s how you get peoples’ attention and delight them so you get them curious and excited about what you have to offer. I would like to share with you an experience from my real life. One of my best friend’s birthday was about to strike. I had no idea about what to gift him but I had to do something unusual.   I came across online shopping sites, searching for wrist watches, key chains etc etc…I wasn’t satisfied with any of those. After so many reverberating thoughts, I decided to do some handcrafts. I never utilized my time for handcrafts till then. I thought it was not my cup of tea.   I came across so many you tube videos and finally I decided to make a scrapbook. At first, it was so tough to take measurements, then to cut the papers, designing (basically d...

Types of people in your WhatsApp Groups

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 Ahhh Whatsapp. How on Earth did social groups get by before this marvel of communication?  Most of us belong to at least one group, usually falling into the fairly standard categories of 'Family', 'Friends' and the dreaded 'Work' chat. Then these usually get split into even more sub-categories, such as 'Brother Only', "Cousinz Underworld" etc etc... We all have a role to play in these group chats, from the person who thinks they're funnier than they actually are (we don't wish that curse on anyone), to the creeper in the background who hasn't actually participate in the chat, eh, ever. Lets check out different types of people you will find on each whatsapp groups 1. The invisible lurker   They read everything – you know they do, you can see those little blue ticks, yet they NEVER REPLY.  They probably register their opinions onto their own mind and think like "why should I reply?" Why bother?  2. The person who keeps leav...