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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

People in life

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  Occasionally in life, you come across somebody who is meant to stay in your life but somehow you don't see that. They make you recognize your self-worth, they realize your true significance. They cherish you in every way possible. They say things you only dreamt of hearing.  You ask yourself when and how did they become so important to you.  You can't help but burn your rule book and fall for them. Funny because not a day passes by when you don't think of them.  You do things for them you never believed you'd do again for anyone. You share your fears, inner thoughts, and heartbreak stories without fearing that they'll judge you. You tell them your favorite quotes, dreams, stupid embarrassing stories from your childhood. You laugh, you smile and you love every single moment you get to spend with them because you just can't seem to get enough of them.  And you wish for this one to stick around for a long time. But in fact, at some point of life, they will start ...

Inner Circle

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 There are only a few people who will cook Maggi for you at 2 am. There are only a few people who will stay up till 2 am to teach you, a night before the exam. There are only a few people who will give you their clothes even when they know that you are never gonna return them. They are your team. Your inner circle. They are the ones who can fix you just by their conversations. But they are also the ones who will make fun of you. They are the ones who will make weird-ass inside jokes on you. There are only a few people who can embarrass you in public - and they are one of them. They are the ones who laugh at you. They are also the ones who laugh with you. They are the ones with whom you lose track of time whenever you are talking to them. They are the ones who are in all your 'crazy' stories. There are only a few people who will look right past your 'I'm fine.' They will know exactly what's up with you, even when you'd be doing your best to hide your actual m...

Surpriseeeeeeeeee

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  Do you love surprises? I just love to surprise others and being surprised.   Surprises add spark to your relationship and communicate how much you care. It adds even more nourishment to your relationships. It’s how you get peoples’ attention and delight them so you get them curious and excited about what you have to offer. I would like to share with you an experience from my real life. One of my best friend’s birthday was about to strike. I had no idea about what to gift him but I had to do something unusual.   I came across online shopping sites, searching for wrist watches, key chains etc etc…I wasn’t satisfied with any of those. After so many reverberating thoughts, I decided to do some handcrafts. I never utilized my time for handcrafts till then. I thought it was not my cup of tea.   I came across so many you tube videos and finally I decided to make a scrapbook. At first, it was so tough to take measurements, then to cut the papers, designing (basically d...

Secretscribblez

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 Quotes help us understand, inspire, motivate, clarify and show our approach to things around. This is why people and I love quotes. I must say, Instagram is an amazing platform for us to follow so many quote pages.  In between our conversations, if we incorporate some "situation-relevant quotes", it will definitely spice up the way of your talking and content perception. Here are some simple quotes which can be relate to our lives with ease. Comment your favorite quote(s) With 💖  Always Pic credits : Secretscribblez Solicitation: Dear readers, thank you for your support. Keep sharing and supporting. Looking forward for your valuable comments and feedback. 😍😍

Types of WhatsApp Groups we have !

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  WhatsApp is very much a part of our daily routines. In fact, according to a website, WhatsApp is the most used Android app in India. So, I’m guessing by now you know how invested we are in it. But if there is one thing that is slightly annoying about using the app, it’s the numerous WhatsApp groups we all are a part of! Don’t deny it, you’re secretly thinking the same thing too. And if you’re a private person, you would have most probably disabled your ‘Last Seen’ and your ‘Read Receipts’, but that doesn’t apply to groups. So, sit back and get ready to relate to everything I’m about to say here. Okay, here we go! 1. THE QUINTESSENTIAL FAMILY GROUPS This is an obvious one. Every one of us will have at least 3–4 groups dedicated to just family. A group that has all your immediate family members. (Parents+Siblings) A group with all the family members on your mother’s side. A group with all the family members on your father’s side. A group generically called ‘Cousins’. Any family gro...