People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Inner Circle


 There are only a few people who will cook Maggi for you at 2 am. There are only a few people who will stay up till 2 am to teach you, a night before the exam. There are only a few people who will give you their clothes even when they know that you are never gonna return them. They are your team. Your inner circle. They are the ones who can fix you just by their conversations.

But they are also the ones who will make fun of you. They are the ones who will make weird-ass inside jokes on you. There are only a few people who can embarrass you in public - and they are one of them. They are the ones who laugh at you. They are also the ones who laugh with you. They are the ones with whom you lose track of time whenever you are talking to them. They are the ones who are in all your 'crazy' stories.


There are only a few people who will look right past your 'I'm fine.' They will know exactly what's up with you, even when you'd be doing your best to hide your actual mood. 

They are the ones who can sense a bad relationship long before you do.

They are the ones who make you question yourself on some days. You look at them, and you end up asking yourself, "What did I even do to deserve these guys?" And in moments like those, you feel happy. You feel thankful. This year was difficult, but you feel happy to have these people who make everything a little easy.


They are your inner circle. Even you know you can't do 'life' without them.

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