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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

MaTuRiTy

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 Do you think there is a certain age at which maturity sets in? Could it be 20? 40? 70? In my personal experiences, I've observed that age has little or nothing to do with it. I have met young people who are mature well beyond their years, and I've known older folks who act childish. If you ask a dozen of people what actually maturity means, you will get a multi dozen of answers. Definition of maturity changes from person to person. Well, let me share you my views on maturity. Maturity is the ability to think, speak and act your feelings within the bounds of dignity.  Its about; the way you see and understand things the way you consider others the way you communicate the way you react the things you value the things you entertain Ultimately, it is the way you represent yourself ! Talking less, stubborn nature, selfishness ..................... these are all antonyms of maturity(my personal opinion). Being matured never demands you to be strict always or to speak less. Our matu...