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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Types of people in your WhatsApp Groups

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 Ahhh Whatsapp. How on Earth did social groups get by before this marvel of communication?  Most of us belong to at least one group, usually falling into the fairly standard categories of 'Family', 'Friends' and the dreaded 'Work' chat. Then these usually get split into even more sub-categories, such as 'Brother Only', "Cousinz Underworld" etc etc... We all have a role to play in these group chats, from the person who thinks they're funnier than they actually are (we don't wish that curse on anyone), to the creeper in the background who hasn't actually participate in the chat, eh, ever. Lets check out different types of people you will find on each whatsapp groups 1. The invisible lurker   They read everything – you know they do, you can see those little blue ticks, yet they NEVER REPLY.  They probably register their opinions onto their own mind and think like "why should I reply?" Why bother?  2. The person who keeps leav...

Types of WhatsApp Groups we have !

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  WhatsApp is very much a part of our daily routines. In fact, according to a website, WhatsApp is the most used Android app in India. So, I’m guessing by now you know how invested we are in it. But if there is one thing that is slightly annoying about using the app, it’s the numerous WhatsApp groups we all are a part of! Don’t deny it, you’re secretly thinking the same thing too. And if you’re a private person, you would have most probably disabled your ‘Last Seen’ and your ‘Read Receipts’, but that doesn’t apply to groups. So, sit back and get ready to relate to everything I’m about to say here. Okay, here we go! 1. THE QUINTESSENTIAL FAMILY GROUPS This is an obvious one. Every one of us will have at least 3–4 groups dedicated to just family. A group that has all your immediate family members. (Parents+Siblings) A group with all the family members on your mother’s side. A group with all the family members on your father’s side. A group generically called ‘Cousins’. Any family gro...