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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.
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Dear Friend

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There are some people in your life, but you don't know why,  talking about death and conspiracy theories or even nasty matters seems as easy as talking about your favorite food. Maybe it's about how they are the only person to know of your Arachibutyrophobia (fear of peanut butter sticking to the roof of your mouth), or maybe it's because they were the only person you wanted to tell that to. And somewhere between singing weird songs and arguing about why dogs are better than cats, you figure out abnormal happiness. It is so easy to be with them, effortless, almost. Being around them just feel natural. Isn't that the most one can ask for? This is where you realize, the real beauty of friendship which is not as easy as the movies make it seem. Life happens and sometimes, you screw up. You get into a huge fight, say nasty things to each other and you storm off. You wonder if it would have been easier to have stayed as strangers and not having been caught up in the complica...
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