People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Dear Friend

There are some people in your life, but you don't know why,  talking about death and conspiracy theories or even nasty matters seems as easy as talking about your favorite food. Maybe it's about how they are the only person to know of your Arachibutyrophobia (fear of peanut butter sticking to the roof of your mouth), or maybe it's because they were the only person you wanted to tell that to.

And somewhere between singing weird songs and arguing about why dogs are better than cats, you figure out abnormal happiness. It is so easy to be with them, effortless, almost. Being around them just feel natural. Isn't that the most one can ask for?

This is where you realize, the real beauty of friendship which is not as easy as the movies make it seem. Life happens and sometimes, you screw up. You get into a huge fight, say nasty things to each other and you storm off. You wonder if it would have been easier to have stayed as strangers and not having been caught up in the complications of friendship.


But the more you think about how you would have been better off without a friendship, the more you realize how much you really love them.

And just like that, you are staying up midnight, trying to bring yourself to tell them that you're sorry. They might not pick up, they might never even see your WhatsApp messages but you still call them. You don't know what to say anymore except that you miss them. You know you messed up but you really love them and you want to make it work.

You hope they will call you back, you really do, because when you find a person like that, you don't let them go. You hold on and pray that they're doing that too.


Love you πŸ’–

Comments

  1. Jst friendship goals 😜😜😜

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  2. I love you dear best friend😘

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  3. U r special. nd so does this article ❤️

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  4. Only a true friend can write things like this..you know..from the heart...and have already won the hearts of many..I guess😍😘

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  5. Good article.. U r always picking up nice topics ♥♥

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