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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Grow as you like!

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 Nature teach us alot. One of the wisdom it share is "Grow as you like". Amid all the social boundaries, somewhere we forgot our natural instincts. We no longer realize what our actual powers are in. How we came to this? What stopped us to leave the natural way of growing and adapt illogical social norms? One thing is very clear. You can't grow with same exposure while moving away from your natural instincts. Afraid of the rejections, or heartbreaks did changed you but is this change worth? Are you really becoming what you wanted? Are you doing justice to the talent you have? Are you growing in the direction you dreamed of? Ask yourself and find out the answers. At least, you can't pretend to yourself.  These are some very important questions, in fact eye openers. Give yourself time and think about this. Nothing gonna change until you make it happen. And before any change, realization is important. Hope you grow as you like. I f you are growing and evolving just like ...

Invisibly visible

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  Sometimes in life you cross paths with someone who instantly makes you feel calm, refreshed, alive and wholesome. They encourage your dreams and celebrate your wins without an ounce of jealousy. They just want what's best for you and for them, there isn’t much more to it. They are warm and bright, loving and loyal. You can’t help but feel authentically happy in their presence, like the best version of yourself. No titles can exactly define that invisible bond between you and them. But remember, everything comes into your life with an expiry date. It’s easy to look back and question the decisions you have made in the past but its unfair to punish yourself for them. Nothing is permanent in this world, neither people nor situations in your life. The only thing that is constant in your life is “change”. Change in people, change in feelings, and change in circumstances…….. Change is always accompanied by discomforts.  However, you should never regret going after what makes your ...

What others will say!!!!

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The title line haunts many of us and it's pretty obvious too, because nobody wants to look bad. But it's also true that the line creates self-doubt and restrict us to make strong decisions. Eventually we visualize an invisible cage or firewall around us. Let's discuss how we can break this suffocating prison. > Understand not everyone gonna like you . There would be people who will always find fault in whatever you do. So hold the anchor of life in your own hands and don't listen to unnecessary opinions. > Filter is so important in life. Start filtering out bad people from your life. Spend time with people who don't judge you and accept you for what you're. This will create a positive atmosphere around you. > Drop the idea of perfectionism . It's one of the biggest energy draining thing you could do. > Live your life the way you want and not based on anyone else expectations. You aren't here to please somebody else's expectations or imp...

People in life

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  Occasionally in life, you come across somebody who is meant to stay in your life but somehow you don't see that. They make you recognize your self-worth, they realize your true significance. They cherish you in every way possible. They say things you only dreamt of hearing.  You ask yourself when and how did they become so important to you.  You can't help but burn your rule book and fall for them. Funny because not a day passes by when you don't think of them.  You do things for them you never believed you'd do again for anyone. You share your fears, inner thoughts, and heartbreak stories without fearing that they'll judge you. You tell them your favorite quotes, dreams, stupid embarrassing stories from your childhood. You laugh, you smile and you love every single moment you get to spend with them because you just can't seem to get enough of them.  And you wish for this one to stick around for a long time. But in fact, at some point of life, they will start ...