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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.
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Who Holds The Key to Your Happiness?

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  I wasn’t happy for the past few days. It was not because of me, but of someone else. I put the key to my happiness into someone else’s pocket. Let me tell you, depending too much and expecting too much from others will disappoint you to a bad extend.  People say, "don't expect too much because expectations are the sole reason for all our disappointments". But in fact, we do expect from our closest ones, right? I do so. Sometimes we let other people control our happiness in life. Whether it’s a romantic partner that we’re dating on or a friend that we’re spending too much time with, depending on someone else to lift your mood every day isn’t healthy. In fact, it’s detrimental. By putting your happiness in the hands of other people, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. I mean, everybody else is so busy focusing on their own stuff that it’s not smart to rely on other people to pick you up all the time. They’d probably end up neglecting you and making you feel...
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Secretscribblez

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 Quotes help us understand, inspire, motivate, clarify and show our approach to things around. This is why people and I love quotes. I must say, Instagram is an amazing platform for us to follow so many quote pages.  In between our conversations, if we incorporate some "situation-relevant quotes", it will definitely spice up the way of your talking and content perception. Here are some simple quotes which can be relate to our lives with ease. Comment your favorite quote(s) With 💖  Always Pic credits : Secretscribblez Solicitation: Dear readers, thank you for your support. Keep sharing and supporting. Looking forward for your valuable comments and feedback. 😍😍
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Happiness is within you !

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Imagine yourself watching a funny video. The video becomes funny only if you laughs and enjoy it. What if you didn't do so? You had a heartbreak because of which you didn't laugh. That means, our happiness comes from within us. External events might cause it to manifest, but the real source of happiness comes from within you.Happiness often seems to be the result of external factors, but actually, it starts and comes out into the open from inside us. There is inner happiness within everyone, but it is covered by layers of negative thoughts, fears, worries and anxieties. Inner happiness is an inseparable part of our inner being, of our essence, but we often allow various factors to hide it. Happiness vs Pleasure It is a hot summer day, and you feel thirsty. A friend offers you a refreshing cold glass of lemonade. After having the lemonade, what you feels is simply pleasure, which lasts for few moments. At the same time, you may feel happiness for your friend's concern for of...
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