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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.
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Good Byes

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 I am too good at goodbyes or one could say am not so good at goodbyes............. I don't remember the last time I cried at goodbyes.................   I often wonder though, what would happen if I held onto little more? Hugged a little longer, watched them vanish round the corner. I think of all these people I have loved and let go off, sometimes temporarily, most permanently, and wonder what would happen if this distance and time gap was taken away? Will the "us" be just as good? I think it worried me what if this goodbyes become a mark on me. Or maybe I was too consumed by my next destination. They say this destination syndromes what cause to have very little memories. I don't have memories of most of my farewells. I hardly remember my last days. And for the people who had left me for good, I don't go back to them, because I often don't have clear memories of them. I also can't hold grudges because I can't remember for shit ! But for the people I ...
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