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People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Self- respect

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  S elf-respect is a word that means honoring your worth, preserving your dignity, and taking pride in your abilities. Being self-respecting means that you believe at a core level that you’re worthy of being treated fairly and with courtesy. Without self-respect, we are susceptible to being used, abused, and mistreated by other people, sometimes our by our dear and near ones.  From your friendships and relationships to your work commitments, having self-respect ensures that you are treated well, given fair opportunities, have your needs and desires met, and remain on equal footing with other people. With no self-respect, you are prone to excessive self-sacrifice, letting yourself be walked over and used, abandoning your true self and authentic needs, giving up on your dreams, and other forms of self-abuse. Self- respect is the basement of acceptance. You should be accepted by someone else just in the way you are. You don’t have to change for others until and unless that change would ad

Overthinking

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While scrolling down your instagram page, your sight stuck at a post featuring one of your close childhood friend’s wedding. You swiped all the images hastily just to check whether all your common friends are present. Unfortunately, all are there except you. Think of such a situation in your real life, what would be your reaction then? “ She didn’t invite me, but why? What made her do so? Does she have any personal hatred towards me? What would I answer if someone asked about my absence? I lost many memorable moments with my friends. What a humiliation…………..hundreds of answerless questions  ” Hey, don't go so deep. All your happiness became fragile and can literally be destroyed by seeing a social media post. In reality your friend forgot to invite you. Scenarios like the one above happen all the time when you're prone to overthinking. Of course, you can’t be ignorant to anything and everything around us, but it does means that you don’t have to overthink and make things even

Secretscribblez

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 Quotes help us understand, inspire, motivate, clarify and show our approach to things around. This is why people and I love quotes. I must say, Instagram is an amazing platform for us to follow so many quote pages.  In between our conversations, if we incorporate some "situation-relevant quotes", it will definitely spice up the way of your talking and content perception. Here are some simple quotes which can be relate to our lives with ease. Comment your favorite quote(s) With ๐Ÿ’–  Always Pic credits : Secretscribblez Solicitation: Dear readers, thank you for your support. Keep sharing and supporting. Looking forward for your valuable comments and feedback. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Art of Understanding

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 Understanding is a psychological process related to an abstract or physical object, such as a person, situation, or message whereby one is able to think about it and use concepts to deal adequately with that object. OMG! It’s complicated. This isn’t what I meant. Simply understanding is the basement of life. Every day we have to understand so many things around us. Understanding is deeper than knowledge. There are many people who know, but very few who understand.  In a conversation, we all are passive listeners because we listen to reply, not to understand. “ Please understand me ” – you might have used this phrase at least once in your life time. Sometimes being understanding is more important than being right. Also, understanding is the first step to acceptance. Can you imagine a livelihood without accepting your family, your friends? Sometimes we understand to accept and sometimes we accept to understand. For every actions and words, there will always be a reason. Failing in under

Scratched stories 2

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 Most of us just love to read quotes. Because sometimes we feel like that particular quote is written specially for us by an anonymous person ! I am presenting here some of the quotes which I have gone through recently. Comment your favorite quote(s) Comment your favorite quote(s) With ๐Ÿ’– Always Solicitation: Dear readers, thank you for your support. Keep sharing and supporting. Looking forward for your valuable comments and feedback. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Start today, not tomorrow

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  “ A body in motion tends to stay in motion, and a body at rest tends to rest in peace .” It’s basic physics. However, a body in rest can be moved if that body wants to act for itself, its own better future. If you’re not willing to move, you’re dead. Please don’t be dead. The world can’t be changed by those who don’t act. Many of us usually take pledge, “Yeah, I’ll do that tomorrow”, “I‘ll start by tomorrow”, different versions; same thing. Tomorrow is a spectre and a shadow. Tomorrow is another “today” in disguise. Tomorrow is never guaranteed, so why not make the most of what you have right now. If you want to write a book, write a book. If you want to learn a skill, learn a skill. If you want to react, react today. If you want to appreciate someone, do it today. If you want to rebuild a broken relationship, do it today. Why should you procrastinate? It’s now or never. You’ll feel better about yourself once you’ve started. Trust me. It gets easier as you go. Life coul

Everything you deserve will be yours !!!

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  What we need may not happen but what we deserve will definitely find its own way to happen. If God has written something to be yours, it will be. The time might be different. The journey might be different. But it will be yours. Know that God has perfect timing for everything. Never early and never late. But it takes a little patience and a lot of faith.  You might have broken, failed and worried, but still if you have the courage to stay strong and say “ I deserve something better than this ”, there lies your victory. You can ask the universe for all the signs you want but ultimately you will get what you deserves. Because not everyone deserves the same thing.  Don't worry about yourself. You reached to this point in your life, crossing so many hardships and challenges. That means, you are strong enough to achieve great things in life because you deserves it. Don't complicate your life's moments expecting too much. You will get what you deserve ! Solicitation: Dear reade

Scratched Stories

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 Most of us just love to read quotes. Because sometimes we feel like that particular quote is written specially for us by an anonymous person ! I am presenting here some of the quotes which I have gone through recently. Comment your favorite quote(s) Comment the quote(s) of your interest๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’– Pic credits:- Scratched Stories Solicitation: Dear readers, thank you for your support. Keep sharing and supporting. Looking forward for your valuable comments and feedback.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜   

Money can’t buy life??

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 Son, “ Money can’t buy life ” were the final words of the famous Jamaican singer-songwriter Bob Marley to his son Ziggy Marley. I wondered why he chooses the statement “Money can’t buy life” as his last words to his son. The life that he was referring to is a life within us, the innermost joys and sense of rewards we enjoy. We need to define Life in the right perspective; having a good house, a car, the best mobile, or the best outfits is not how you define life as most of people do especially youngsters. There is no issue in making money but prioritizing making money as a purpose of life and believing that it can buy anything can make your life darker.  Money does help us in so many aspects of life. However, money is not the most stand-alone important thing in life. It is not worth sacrificing all the other essential things in life. Yes, its true that money can buy so many things. But there some "underrated " things which money can't buy for you from anywhere in this wo

Happiness is within you !

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Imagine yourself watching a funny video. The video becomes funny only if you laughs and enjoy it. What if you didn't do so? You had a heartbreak because of which you didn't laugh. That means, our happiness comes from within us. External events might cause it to manifest, but the real source of happiness comes from within you.Happiness often seems to be the result of external factors, but actually, it starts and comes out into the open from inside us. There is inner happiness within everyone, but it is covered by layers of negative thoughts, fears, worries and anxieties. Inner happiness is an inseparable part of our inner being, of our essence, but we often allow various factors to hide it. Happiness vs Pleasure It is a hot summer day, and you feel thirsty. A friend offers you a refreshing cold glass of lemonade. After having the lemonade, what you feels is simply pleasure, which lasts for few moments. At the same time, you may feel happiness for your friend's concern for of

Wherever you go, go with all your heart.

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 In our life, there are two major reasons behind all our activities; either because of love or because of responsibility . If it is done with love, everything will be simple . If it is done due to the burden of responsibility, everything will seem to be more complicated than it is! When we say that we should carry our heart along with ourselves wherever we go, it simply means that you should do everything wholeheartedly. When you try to do something with all your heart, you are sure to achieve that in the long run.  When we intentionally add our heart wherever we go, we are positively impacting the energetic environment around us. You become more positive and spread positivity around you as well. You do great and you give happiness to people around you.With every kind word spoken and every compassionate or caring action, we contribute to co-creating a new world based on heart values that heal, and nurture others as well as our self. Also, you give reasons to people to smile and that’