People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.
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That person in our life !

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 You’ve a simple mantra – have no expectations from people, because you were convinced that there was nobody for you and then, you met them and your world flipped. They made you feel warm, sitting under the sun after taking a bath in a winter morning kind of warm. They were your rays of sunshine, in a way.

You were certain that they will leave, too, but they never did. They were around, whenever you needed them, with their goofy smile, they’d set your demons straight and calm you down. What years of therapy couldn’t achieve, a few moments did – you felt at peace.


You want to watch chick flicks and walk under the stars with them. Dancing in the rain and singing your favourite songs with them feels no less than being at the top of the world. They make you believe in the goodness of the world.

They go out of their way to make you smile on days you don’t even feel like waking up. They accept you for who you are, with all your flaws and insecurities. They believe in you and not pity you. They would never give up on you. It is strange how love knocks when you least expect it to.


and now, all you want is to make them as happy as they make you and to fill their life with all the love and happiness of the world.

Am I right? What do you think? Do you have that someone in your life whose happiness worth more than yours? Its simply great !!

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