People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.
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Heart vs Brain; which one should you follow?

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You’re torn between two options—one risky, the other is safe. The risky option lures you to make a quick online purchase. Even though you know it’s more than you can or should spend, time is running out on the availability of the item. The site is telling you exactly how many are left. You're not sure exactly whether it will fit into your wardrobe but because there are only two left, you figure you need to hurry. Your heart is shouting a clear Yes, telling you how great you will look in it and how happy it will make you. Shouting No just as loudly is your head, which instructs you to take a pass and save your money.

When you fall in love, you feel your heart flutter, beat loudly or leap for joy; when you're rejected, your heart breaks. You are called heartless or cold-hearted when you show no care or love...and big-hearted when you extend your concern to others. You "take things to heart" or "talk heart-to-heart" about deeply personal issues. You love someone "from the bottom of your heart" but are half-hearted about something when you're emotionally uninvolved.



Unfortunately, we tend to be bad statisticians when it comes to taking stock of our own prior experiences. Research shows that we tend to remember the distinctive events in our lives, particularly those that were pleasant.  For most people, even traumatic memories tend to fade with time. As a result, we’re almost programmed to go with our heart because we remember the times when it provided the correct guidance.

When it comes to your head, it is comprised of knowledge, facts. But there is a difference between knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge is facts, raw and undebated. Wisdom is knowing what to do with that knowledge. It’s a blend of emotion and logic. You may not remember the times when you followed logic, because they may not have been as memorable. It’s also possible that when reason prevailed, it told you not to do something; therefore, you have less to remember.

Listening to your heart, especially if you’re under any kind of time pressure, is likely to hurt you or lead to damaging outcomes.  It is best not to make a quick decision in the moment.Take time to weigh all the factors about anything that comes to you. This will help you make a decision that is a blend of heart and head knowledge.

You were given a head and a heart for a reason, they both can help you in their own way. Your heart and head speak different languages, but they’re both trying to guide you. It’s up to you to know how to listen to them both and make a wise choice. None of us are perfect at it.

So yes, a blend of heart and head will lead you to the wisest most favorable decisions. Rely too much on your heart, and you could be making dangerous and impulsive decisions with harmful consequences, rely too much on your head, and well my friend, you just aren’t quite living enough.What’s life without a little adventure and risk?


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