People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Types of people you see on Whatsapp !

WhatsApp Messenger, or simply WhatsApp allows users to send text messages and voice messages, make voice and video calls, and share images, documents, user locations, and other media. Whatsapp has become inevitable so that noone can live a day without checking your Whatsapp. Typically the type of text message interaction is based on numerous variables, such as time, place, type of relationship and personality. 
Different types of chatting friends are there within our friends' circle. Lets figure them out !

1. The Picture Sender
This is the person that constantly bombards you with images of funny internet memes for an appropriate conversation. These are the people who send memes instead of texting a joke. It has its benefits and can be incredibly funny – when used in context and mutual understanding. Sending pictures every minute is a bit overkill (plus it eats data).

2. The Voice Note Vocalist
This is the person who is too lazy to type a text message and too broke to phone. The voice note is perfect when wanting to give a quick message when unable to type , but constantly sending back voice messages back and forth on Whatsapp instead of texting, well defeats the purpose. Rather phone and have a meaningful conversation – or better yet meet up, and communicate the “old fashioned way.” There is always that awkwardness of listening to a 2 minute long voice note and then being that person that replies with a four word sentence. Don’t go there!

3. The Non Spelling Bee

We all know this person. The 1 tht txts lik ts. The one that uses acronyms and sms lingo constantly. Nothing wrong with sms lingo like a LOL or IDK, once in a while is perfectly acceptable. Just don’t throw the entire dictionary out of the window. We still want to understand what you say.

4. The Impatient Friend
Ah, we have all encountered this individual who has the patience level of a five year old. If you do not reply to this person’s text message instantly then upon checking your phone you may get five new messages which look like this:
What are you doing? – 12:03
?? – 12:05
????????????? – 12:12
Where are you?????????? 12:14
Not good. Good things take time dear friends.

5. The Texting Ghost
“Ghosting” is probably one of the worst things in the Whatsapp universe. Ghosting, for those unfamiliar with the term is when a person reads a text message but only responds a day later or worse, never responds. Not a good idea to text something important to this individual – it will only test your patience. 

6. The Minimalist
The minimalist is the Novelist’s biggest source of frustration on whatsapp. The minimalist likes to keep things simple and straight to the point. No need for emotion here people. The minimalist uses whatsapp to get information, set up meetings and confirm stuff. Their use of one-liners are legendary with a “okay” “k” or “cool” being their go to words.
Example: “I just got my driver’s licence!”
“K”

7. The Novelist
This is the person who likes to type and type and type. Sharing stories, habits and daily routines. This person also likes to express him or herself constantly and is horrified when they receive a short reply. All that effort for nothing!? Novelists normally mimic real life conversations in text messages to keep things interesting. They just hope that the other person also gets into it.

8.The Groupie
This is the person who loves to initiate private conversations on Whatsapp groups with another individual. They also reply on every request on a whatsapp group. They also try to post anything to get a response. A group is there for a reason – use it accordingly. Keep it public or private – no grey areas here.

So, you belongs to which category dear friends???????

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  1. There is one more category and i belong to that😜πŸ€ͺ

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  2. Finally I came to know my category πŸ₯΄πŸ₯°

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  3. Seems to be a variety topic.. eventhough whatsapp has become a part of daily life, we care less about how we use it.. This article helps to think a little more about it. Really liked it....😍

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  4. Oh no, I think I don't even exist πŸ˜‚

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  5. Really interesting one..... πŸ˜„

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