People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.
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"Do or Die"

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This quote is by Mahatma Gandhi, father of the nation India. It means that if you decided to do something, never give up. Even if the outcome would be unacceptable, never give up if your intention is worthwhile. Nobody can stop you from pursuing your will until and unless you let them stop you. Its okay to fail in an attempt. Follow your dreams and work hard to accomplish it, no matter how big or small it is. Be not afraid of doing whatever you want, be afraid of not doing anything.



I can't stress on the importance of working hard enough, work on all aspects of your life game. If you does that and have the ability, you will come through. Its not only about doing something for our own needs alone, but also about what we do for the people around us. Our success is not measured by considering our bank balance, our success is measured by the happiness we spread into the life of others. Because people in our life should always be more important than the work we do. Actions are most important in life; act with love, understanding, kindness and compassion towards others that this could upgrade the standard of the life of you and your nearby ones.


 

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