People Pleaser

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Yes, you are kind and respectful to others. Yes, you care about their feeling. Yes, you try to make them happy with your efforts. There is nothing bad in it. . But what if your this habit becomes obsession. And that destroys your own self-esteem and mental health. Starting from frustration, to feeling helpless in expressing on thoughts and opinion. It all happens when you ignore your own happiness for people. Be kind always to people but not at cost of your own self-esteem. Set boundaries and stick to them, that's a fair deal. Moreover, you don't need to prove your worthiness to every person. We can't satisfy all of them. So it's good to set the boundaries and never drop the head.

Dear old friend


Why did we stop talking?

Was it because I didn’t call you first? Or was it because we stopped being active on Facebook? Or was it the fact that you moved to a different city for your college? I thought that our friendship was gonna last forever.


Do you remember our last school trip? Do you remember our long phone calls during our board exams? Both of us were so scared. Both of us were so worried. I have faded memories of all those conversations. I liked talking to you. I wonder why we stopped talking?

Remember when we were in sixth grade, all my “letter to a friend” used to be addressed to you and you wrote the letters to me. We’d sit next to each other, and laugh whenever the teacher would turn to write on the blackboard. Those were the days !


Look, I get it. People get busy in their lives. People meet new people and life just happens. It’s not that I think about you a lot, its just that on some days you pop in my head and I feel sad because we don’t talk anymore. To be honest, I don’t even know if it will still be the same whenever we talk again. I don’t know if we will even want to be friends, both of us have changed, I feel so.

I don’t blame you for not being in touch. We both are equally responsible for the death of our friendship. Well, I guess this is how it works. You keep growing, you keep losing people and it sucks. I guess, everyone is not so lucky. So, dear old friend, its okay that we stopped talking. I just hope you are happy wherever you are and if I ever pop in your head again, just DM !

 

Share this to your old friends whom you still loves and wanna keep that friendship alive forever. 

Comments

  1. We are the passengers traveling together with different destinations. In the journey we meet people..be with them for some time and when time comes they depart after serving their purpose in our journey of life..life just moves on..just like that 😊

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